I’M IIBA Stories: Jorge

The Immigration Institute of the Bay Area (IIBA) has launched a new campaign – called I’M IIBA – uplifting what we know to be the true character and positive contributions of immigrants in the Bay Area. 

This week we highlight the inspirational story of Jorge

I’M JORGE

Some of my happiest memories are from Mexico City, where I was born and where I built the beginnings of my family. I met my wife while working one of my first jobs in retail, and together we had our two daughters before making the difficult decision to leave. I remember the chaos of the city — rushing to drop off my daughter at daycare, catching the train, working long hours. Life wasn’t easy, but it was filled with love and purpose.

Leaving Mexico was one of the hardest choices I’ve ever made. The violence, insecurity, and lack of opportunity made it impossible to see a safe future for my family. I came to the United States first, and it took three years before I could bring my wife and daughters. One of the most painful moments was seeing my youngest daughter again after all that time — she was just six months old when I left, and by the time she arrived, she didn’t even recognize me. She would cry and chase after her mom when she left for work, and I’d try to tell her, “I’m your dad,” but I was still a stranger to her.

I’M AN IMMIGRANT 

I arrived in the United States 21 years ago with no money, no English, and nobody to rely on — just the hope that life could be better. A kind older man, the father of a friend, was the only person who offered to help when I arrived. I slept on a couch, paid rent from my first paycheck, and learned everything the hard way. A friend gave me a used bike to get to work. Another gave me clothes that didn’t fit him anymore. When I had no money for food, he bought me tacos and told me, “Don’t worry — someday everything will change” and it did.

I’ve lived in the Bay Area since I arrived. At first, I was terrified to even walk into a store. I didn’t understand how money worked, I couldn’t read the prices, and I was afraid the police might stop me. But little by little, people helped me. I learned to navigate the system, learned basic English, and eventually brought my wife and daughters here.

I’M A KITCHEN LEAD

After losing my job at a shipping company because I didn’t have papers, a friend offered me a job to work with him at a restaurant. That’s how I ended up making pizzas. I had no idea how to do it at first, but the owner was patient and gave me a chance. When he sold the restaurant, the new owners kept me on, and I’ve been working with him ever since — over 18 years now.

I’ve learned how to take phone orders, handle customer service, manage inventory, and run the day-to-day operations. I basically help manage the restaurant when my boss is away. He trusts me to take care of everything—even his kids have learned how to make pizzas through me. It’s a small family-owned place, and over the years, they’ve become like family to me too.

I’M A FATHER, A FRIEND, AND A HUSBAND

I’m a proud father—my oldest daughter is married and my second daughter is in college. I work hard to help support her education. These days, it’s mostly just my wife and I at home with our youngest, and we’re grateful for everything we’ve built together.

I’m passionate about soccer — I root for the Pumas in Mexico and Barcelona in Europe. I get so into the games that I yell at the TV like I’m the referee. My wife’s a fan of the rival team, so it gets interesting at home!

I don’t have a big hobby, but I’ve been thinking about joining a gym. Lately, when I bend down, I hear all kinds of “ay, ay, ay” sounds — I think it’s time.

I’M IIBA

My connection to IIBA started during one of the most difficult times in our lives. A social worker referred us after an incident that made us eligible for a U Visa. IIBA—especially Becky—walked with us through every step of the process. They treated us with respect, compassion, and patience. It took years, but thanks to them, my family and I received our work permits and later our green cards. I will always be grateful.

IIBA has been a blessing in my life. They guided us through one of the most complex and emotional journeys we’ve ever faced. The team  treated us with kindness and made sure we understood each step. Thanks to them, my family was able to live, work, and dream again.

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